I really don't understand why there are people who do not really care about someone else's feelings. To tell you honestly, I am a tactful person. I really care about the feelings of others before I say my lines. Well, there were times that I say things, which I don't really mean because I was carried away by my emotions (esp. anger, frustration and inis). I think tactfulness should be present anytime and in every people you(we) communicate.
We're comfortable sharing various things with our friends but we also be tactful. Let us consider the feelings of our friends. On my opinion, I think being straight-forward is not that really good. Being straight-forward has its own disadvantage: you can hurt other's people without knowing anything. Your relationship with your friends will start to fade. Your friendship will have a slight crack. Not unless your friends were really martyrs, who just accept the "hurtful" things that you said.
I've experienced such thing way back then. My friends and I ate in this restaurant and we're telling jokes to each other. Those jokes that they say about me was something offensive. They thought that I'm still in the mood to talk but I just go with the flow. I cried. They still joke.
Some people were not really aware about the feelings of others, we can't blame them. I just wait until they realize that their actions were wrong.
These are just my insights.
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